Emotions are already heating up in the Big Brother Naija Season 10 house as a revealing conversation between housemates Kola and Dede stirred drama and sparked discussions among fans. During a heart-to-heart talk, Kola opened up about his feelings toward Dede, candidly expressing a strong physical and emotional attraction—yet stopping short of calling it love.
In a conversation that took place during a quiet moment in the lounge, Kola admitted that Dede matched his type perfectly and that he had been drawn to her from the very first day of entering the Big Brother house. Despite the attraction, he emphasized that the connection had not yet matured into affection or deeper emotional attachment due to the short duration of their stay in the house so far.
“You are actually my type, that’s why I wanted to get to know you, talk to you and everything. I’m not gonna sit down and act like I’m not attracted to you. Anyway, I’m very much attracted to you. It’s Day 4, so I can’t say that I like you, but what I would say for sure is that you are someone,” he confessed, his tone sincere and contemplative.
However, what began as a vulnerable admission of attraction soon took a slightly tense turn when Kola suggested that Dede may already be emotionally closer to another housemate—Jason Jae. He implied that her interactions with Jason seemed to suggest a deeper connection. The comment visibly surprised Dede, who immediately pushed back against the assumption.
Responding with clarity, Dede set the record straight. She explained that her relationship with Jason was nothing more than a friendly and platonic bond, devoid of any romantic feelings or intentions. She firmly denied having any emotional involvement beyond companionship and expressed frustration at the suggestion that there was something more.
Addressing Kola directly and with a firm tone, Dede disclosed that she is currently in a committed relationship outside the Big Brother house. She made it clear that her loyalty lies with her partner on the outside and that she had no interest whatsoever in forming romantic entanglements within the house.
“I’m in a relationship outside the house, very serious, really not open,” she stated, leaving no room for misinterpretation.
Dede went on to respectfully but assertively communicate her personal boundaries, noting that while she’s open to friendships, any attempt to shift those dynamics into something romantic would not be entertained or tolerated. She emphasized the importance of honesty, emotional discipline, and respect for her existing commitment.
“So coming to an agreement and you say ‘Okay, cool, I know you have a relationship outside and I respect that and I wanna try to be your friend.’ That’s cool. But if tomorrow you trying to be my friend and there’s feelings involved and I’m hearing all I need reciprocation, it will not happen. It will definitely not happen by God’s grace,” she asserted, reinforcing her boundaries with confidence.
The exchange has since sparked discussions both inside and outside the house, with fans weighing in on the importance of emotional boundaries and the complexities of forming connections in the highly pressurized environment of Big Brother Naija. As the season unfolds, all eyes will be on Kola, Dede, and Jason Jae to see how this emotional triangle evolves—or dissolves entirely.